Fueling Your Life

We have choices everyday…the clothes we wear, alcohol, coffee/caffeine, food we put into our bodies. Now there is a great topic - food. Have you ever thought about the vibration of the food you put into your body? Everything in life has a frequency, a vibration. The foods you choose to put into your fuel tank resonate with a frequency that will either vibrate with your own body chemistry or it won’t. Pretty simple. Take for example the movie Supersize Me. In one month’s time, the gentleman’s brain became foggier, sex drive down, girth up etc. It’s a great example of how our bodies work, or rather don’t work, with the foods in our environment. Think of all the additives, chemicals, fillers that our bodies have to digest and assimilate and absorb. It has to really pull out all the stops to stay healthy, on top of no sleep, stress and heavy emotions from poor jobs, traffic, love relations etc. It’s a wonder any of us are here today.

Life is a Choice

So back to choices…..choices on emotions that feed our soul, choices on time for ourselves, choices on our voice and inflections, choices on being kind to others etc. All of this adds to the daily living in the light (love) vs. darkness (fear).

The way I look at things is, once you know something you can’t ‘unknow’ it, meaning, you KNOW what works for you. Perhaps it’s a walk even in the rain a couple of times a week, and/or making time to read a good novel on a regular basis. Perhaps it’s knowing what feeds you is connecting with your family even though they live across the country (so buy a phone card from Costco). I realize life and time get in the way, however it all goes back to clearing out your ‘dance card’ and reconfiguring it in a way that enables you to dance the steps and style with whom and where you want to go. Choices.

Apply What You Learn

In doing readings and healings, everyone I have worked with has taught me something useful I can integrate into life. Everyone is a gift. I feel fortunate in the work that I do because I absolutely love it and have been brought some incredible individuals that are all striving to be better human beings. My most favorite thing is working on someone’s body and having an emotional issue pop up in the area, clear it out and have the body respond to the release and move to a greater level of health.

The body remembers

I am working with a horse trainer in southern California right now that has had several terrific spills on her horse, where she and the horse were both injured quite badly. Her hip and left leg has been damaged for the last several years and she has tried all kinds of modalities to get her this far on her road to recovery. She was recommended to me because I have become more aware of old injuries in the body and how to address them and rearrange the energy around them so they can heal. I do this remotely on the quantum level, particle waves can be in more than one place at one time, so I call in the body with clear intention, and then I am able to see the injury or imbalance.

This week, her thighs in the back were out of balance. (It’ important though that I tell you, that since I’d worked on her twice, she has been to her doctor and there are visible results in the shape of her thigh, the hematomas are smaller, and she is able to put both feet on the ground dancing in a way she hasn’t been able to in years. Very cool.)

I had a picture of her at 14-yr old with her mother where I could see her mother lecturing her, shaking her hand. She was amazed because it was something she had remembered recently, though she thought she might have been 15, where her mother had marched her down to Planned Parenthood to get her all kinds of birth control. Of course from her mom’s perspective she probably thought she was a pretty hip mother, however, the insult and injury to a 14-yr old psyche was pretty enormous. So much so that she was still carrying the emotion in her legs, close to her hips, the sexual location of the body. Fascinating. Once we tapped into the energy of that incident, her legs balanced out and we were able to move forward into the old muscle injury and begin working on the tissues.

The soul remembers

Another client was having difficulty with her cranial bones. She was on a weekly diet of visiting her chiropractor to keep things in balance. At my last convention in Pasadena she trusted me with working on her, and by the way she is a very fascinating woman. She has all this wonderful faerie energy around her of lightness and joy and connection with the earth, even though she is living in the concrete city of LA freeways. Her energy spreads out and warms those around her.

Her left side of her skull has been tender for years and would cause distress and pain. Going into the area, was an emotional memory of drawing the psychic sword in the sand: A determination not to go back to old patterns and to move forward into new areas of belief. It actually had an overlap into a parallel aspect of a samurai and living by a strict code of conduct and ethics, the warrior spirit/nature of herself that carried over into this life, this now.

The memory or scarring that was still on her skull was able to shift once the knowledge of that experience came to light. She then went to her doctor and he acknowledged/verified that “something had indeed shifted”. She also went on to tell me that “everything you said felt right and explained quite a few things that I’ve often wondered about. Thank you so much for the healing on the left side of my head.”

Trust Yourself

Now once again I am going to reiterate, that no matter whom you see for information and learning, a reader, a healer a doctor, whomever, they are seeing life through their lens and no matter what, only you know what is best and right for you. Only your innate knowledge and wisdom can truly see what in the end is right for you.

As an example, if one of you came to me for a reading or a healing or both, and if the information that came from it didn’t feel correct or right in your heart, then throw it out with the bath water. From my own personal perspective of course I want to be able to give you a gift, something that speaks to you, not too mention being able to help shift stuck energies in your body. So I have to admit I become emotionally tagged to the end result. My issue, not yours.

My only request is that you really sit with any or all information that comes your way and evaluate to see if it really is what you are seeking and true for you. Make sure it is of the “light and love” of the Universe and propels you forward. One thing is for sure. No one can predict the future. No one. We all have free will and can change any moment any time.

Did any of you see the Tom Cruise movie Minority Report, where the intuitives were able to predict the next crime? Yet in the end they had only seen an aspect of a situation that could be changed at any second and in this case, the last moment. Weird movie, great concept. Free will at it’s finest. Find and seek out what resonates with you.

Acknowledge yourself

Another story is of a young man in New York. As a teenager he had an extremely difficult time, never fitting in, angry, remorseful, remote, isolated, and basically out of sync. Finally his mother had a session with me. Fascinating, always fascinating.

Her son was from another planet in the Universe and had signed up to come to earth to learn about emotions. His world was a world of black, whites, steel-grays, with basically no color, no emotion, with many angles and sharp edges. There were no soft edges, no roundness, no smoothness, unless in the dull light of the gray. He volunteered to learn what it was that earth represented, what energies we possessed, what the hoopla was all about, so he could take these emotions back to help shift his own people, his world. In the meantime, he’s now in a body that is foreign to his energy, he’s on a world that is bright and full of rushing sensations, where people communicate with wild swings of thought, energy, voice, movement…where there are no rules for interacting.

Coming from a very severe and austere environment to one of uncontrolled chaos was almost more than his system could handle. He wanted to wear nothing and I mean NO thing but black. And this was not about being ‘goth’. He had difficulty relating in words laced with anything emotional to anybody, yet alone peers. No one in the family understood him, so how could the rest of society.

Fortunately from the Big Picture, he chose a mom, a family that looks outside the box, and was always on a quest to figure out the why’s behind the mask. After doing the reading, my client’s son felt a relief, that yes! Damn it! He wasn’t nuts. He was different.

Now, that he knew his instincts were correct (yet he hadn’t the language for it,) he shifted his awareness, and began what I would call his ‘education’. Prior to this, school was a challenge, a hazard, something where learning was more-than-difficult. He began by wearing colored t-shirts that began the process of integrating the vibrations of emotion into his body’s frequency. He felt warmer. His studies became easier. He then went on to college and his grades improved immeasurably.

I believe a large component was the validation of feeling so alien in a culture that runs on mach 32 and doesn’t have time to help those between the cracks. His family, who had always tried to understand, now had the ability to see him with even clearer lenses. Time will tell where life will take him. I feel he’s in the “earth dance” for a while to see where it will take him. My sense is that he will eventually love the sensuousness of this planet and really enjoy all the beauty it has to offer.

Reveal yourself

A woman in her mid-40’s from back east called me for a reading and had a long list of questions to ask. The visual that came to me was a large desk cluttered with all this extraneous paper work that just need pushed off to focus on one particular item. That item was her health.

I was completely forthright with her and asked her if on some level she wanted to leave the planet. It brought her upright and made her really look into the mirror. Yes on some level she did.

We went back through her childhood, her rebelliousness, her lack of connection with her mother that had carry-overs from a love triangle several centuries away, and then focused on the addiction she had had since a teenager: smoking. Her body was telling me that unless she changed her thoughts and intentions behind the intake of daily toxic smoke it wasn’t going to be able to keep up with the abuse. She had choices to make. From the Big Picture there are no wrong choices, though some have a faster result.

We then went into her creativity and where she had squelched hers, buried underneath years of emotions and not feeling worthy. We touched on pottery, a three dimensional release of vision and creation. She had choices to make. She quit smoking; actually advertising herself as a non-smoker. She took pottery classes and then became so adept she taught the instructor.

Two years later her pottery is in galleries all around her area. She combined her heart connection with her mind and with intention changed her life. Of course it wasn’t easy. It required a great deal of hard work, as anyone who has ever kicked an addiction can tell you. She changed the way she looked at food, began going to Curves and has shed 14 inches from her body. Pretty amazing. In the end, it’s all up to us.

Tuning In to Better Choices

We live in a society where we are patted on the back for being work-aholics. Being in our heads, learning, achieving, climbing the ladder is what it’s all about. It’s difficult to stay centered, stay focused and learn to live in our hearts and stay tuned. I like the implications of that. Fine “tuning”, like the keys on a piano. I know that all things vibrate to a frequency a vibration, a note.

One thing I do believe, though, is there are no absolutes. Meaning, that your heart frequency may vibrate and tune to another note or key than your neighbors. I know there are books out there explaining that such and such vibrates to this note and this to that. In relation to concrete things, (though that also is a cosmic joke) that is probably true. However for the body, your body, you may find that what you read in someone’s book doesn’t hold true for you.

An example of that would be my client in NY. Do you think his frequencies, his chakras vibrate at the same note or vibration as yours? Doubt it. Also some chakras energies swirl counterclockwise to what is the norm.

With all of this in mind, tune into your body’s energy fields, by being quiet with yourself, finding your safe/happy/peaceful spot and feeling all of the energy patterns in your body, hearing your ‘notes’. With intention, clear intention, visualize each area of imbalance in your body as whole, clear and balanced.

From there, go to your Heart area, the true area of Universal connection, clear it out with your breath, center your focus there, and then ask yourself all the questions you need answered (remember to leave your ‘head’ on the counter.) You’ll probably find that they are completely different than those in your head, those outcomes that everyone else thinks you ‘should’ do. Feel the area, stay completely focused, fill it with color, light, and love and see how it shifts your perspective of the world around you.

Every time you shift, the people around you shift. Every time you take the time to calm yourself before reacting to a situation, and look into a person’s eyes with the intention of talking to the best within them, something shifts. Everyone shifts.

Combining that with your beliefs about yourself, your environment, your world, can change almost anything. The Huna masters of Hawaii believe that if you can change someone’s beliefs then true healing is possible. Start within yourself, create change with intention, love, connection to heart, the God within, shift your beliefs, and all of our “lights” will light the darkness and create the loving change that is required on this planet. It’s all possible. We can all do it. We just need to Believe.

Candia Sanders is an energetic healer who offers her gifts to others through intuitive readings, bodywork and teaching. Please explore this website to learn more about Candia's work.

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